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“Why am I being charged?”

In order to upgrade a membership on any of our sites, a charge will be debited from the associated account. Depending on your chosen membership plan, this charge may re-bill monthly. 

To cancel any mobile billing payments, text STOP to 89595. 

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Your bank may temporarily pause a transaction as they carry out their routine checks - you may need to contact them to continue with your upgrade. 

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Should you decide to cancel your chosen subscription service at any time, simply visit the Membership section of your site and follow the steps to cancel. 

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As a VIP member you will get a lot more out of the site, including unrestricted message options, access to all media, unlimited photo uploads, private chat in the chatrooms, appearing high in search results and access to enhanced search features.

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You are able to upgrade your membership at any time by visiting the Membership section of the site and browsing all upgrade options. 

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